更新时间:2015-01-29

实习医生格蕾第二季:《Owner of a lonely heart》

《Owner of a lonely heart》
第二季第十一集
Forty years ago, the Beatles asked the world a simple question. They wanted to know where all the lonely people came from. My latest theory is that a great many of them came from the hospitals, more precisely, the surgical ward of hospitals.
这一集我最想记住的感动之处：
①从监狱送来急救的女杀人犯，吞下四片剃刀。手术中CHristina说难以相信会有人做出这样伤害自己的傻事。Bailey解释说她不仅仅是蹲监狱，她在关禁闭，你试试，锁在一个没有窗户的房间一个月，一天二十三小时没人理你，怎么不疯狂。女囚犯为了能从囚室里出来有个人可以说说话，她不怕吞刀片。
而她害怕男朋友离开自己，害怕自己孤单得一无所有，也不得已帮男友做犯法的事。真是够傻啊！
手术后女囚竟然再次寻死，吞下一枚灯泡，喉咙卡着咳血以至奄奄一息。这颗心是有多孤独和绝望啊。镜头中我看到她右手手指写下LOVE，被笔划掉了。应该是觉得爱得不值得，对爱死心了。我觉得她是可悲的可怜的。CHristina之前对她说的一句，也许孤独有时候是好的。
当你一个人的时候。

②怀五胞胎（quint）的准妈妈没有听取十六还是二十六位医生的建议，减少胚胎数量以确保质量，而执意坚持继续保五个宝宝。
最后突发情况，导致早产，而五个宝宝都不健康。两个情况极度不稳定，一个生下来有一个器官在体外，一个健康指数低于平均。
最后是Grey突然想到把单独住在保温箱(infant incubator)的宝宝，改为一个保温箱住两个宝宝。

因为。。。
“If Emily dies…”
“ If Emily dies it will be horrible. But if Emily dies and you are not here... ”
“I can’t even hold them.”
“ But you can sit there with them, and talk to them let them know they are not alone in this world. That's all they need. That's all anybody...”
“…I think I know how to help Charlotte.”
“it's called Co-bedding. Hospitals sometimes do it with twins when one of them is sick “
“And the other one...gets better?”
“It helps. I don't really know, sometimes babies get stressed in the ICUs(Intensive Care Unit) from all the activity. This way there’s someone there to comfort them, to be there with them.”

因为。。。
Even the tiniest life need company to survive.即使是最小的生命，也需要陪伴，就算只是听见彼此的呼吸，也可以相互鼓励努力活下去。

结语：
No man is an island entire unto himself.
Boil down that island talk and he just meant that all anyone needs is someone to step in.
And let us know we’re not alone.